We're not the center of the world, but we're still sad for not being invited to our bestie's wedding

Anyone may take someone's wedding invitation for granted. But this will never be the case between close friends or someone whom you trust, share experience to, and spend lots of time with. I would genuinely feel happy for my colleague's wedding, let alone one of my favorite person's.

You've tried so hard not to take things personally, but you still feel excluded. You wanted to think that the world doesn't revolve around you, but you still have that feeling anyway and it makes you feel even more frustrated.

Being invited or at least informed about your bestie's wedding is so much a big deal, even though you barely meet or talk to each other lately. It shows how both of you still value communication. You must've heard how important communication is. I think it's more than just important. Communication differs friends from strangers. 

Call me dramatic, but let's just be honest to ourselves. Not being invited to your close friend's wedding is so hurtful. Suddenly, the friendship and times you've spent with her feel meaningless. You feel excluded knowing you're not part of her important moment. And you're questioning yourself what you did wrong.

You probably don't talk about it since others may tell you not to be too sensitive and that maybe they just forgot. While knowing the fact that your bestie forgets to invite you to their wedding doesn't make you feel better at all.

If you happen to experience it, whoever you are, I truly hope you recover from it and things you don't talk about.